Your my Frenemy, are you kidding me?
Ladies this is for those of you who have a new friend you are close to, but might not really know.
I'm not saying you shouldn't trust your friends, but always follow your instincts. If something feels off, follow your feeling and keep your eyes open, sometimes the people who you think are your friends are really... Frenemies, for those of you who have been hiding under a rock that means they are not really your friend but someone who wants something from you and will act like your friend to get it.
So this leads to the old saying keep your friends close and your enemies closer, but how do you know which are which, well let's rule out anyone you have known since your old teenage party days, because if they were your cohort back then and didn't steal your boyfriends or clothes, then chances are they are a true friend, on the other hand if it is a new friend that seems to quickly integrate their way into your life, wanting to either wear your clothes or taking to much interest in your life, think twice and watch your back cause your new Guess shirt may end up with a hole where the knife went through your back.
Don't let the sweet smile and almost sincere long talks fool you, if she can't look you in the eye or does but it looks like a blank stare, there is a reason, and no it's not that she is shy, she is thinking of ways to make herself more important in your life until that moment when she can swoop in and BAM you will never know what hit you.
This has been a public service announcement from your advice Guru.
I'm not saying you shouldn't trust your friends, but always follow your instincts. If something feels off, follow your feeling and keep your eyes open, sometimes the people who you think are your friends are really... Frenemies, for those of you who have been hiding under a rock that means they are not really your friend but someone who wants something from you and will act like your friend to get it.
So this leads to the old saying keep your friends close and your enemies closer, but how do you know which are which, well let's rule out anyone you have known since your old teenage party days, because if they were your cohort back then and didn't steal your boyfriends or clothes, then chances are they are a true friend, on the other hand if it is a new friend that seems to quickly integrate their way into your life, wanting to either wear your clothes or taking to much interest in your life, think twice and watch your back cause your new Guess shirt may end up with a hole where the knife went through your back.
Don't let the sweet smile and almost sincere long talks fool you, if she can't look you in the eye or does but it looks like a blank stare, there is a reason, and no it's not that she is shy, she is thinking of ways to make herself more important in your life until that moment when she can swoop in and BAM you will never know what hit you.
This has been a public service announcement from your advice Guru.
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